Today we’re excited to have a special guest blogger… Christian Elliot. He’s a certified personal trainer and health and wellness coach here to help us all live our Best Life Ever 🙂
How’s your year going so far?
You haven’t missed a workout, made a bad food choice, or gotten off schedule, have you?
OK, whew. I have too…glad it’s not just me.
Here’s another confession: I’m confident I’ll miss more workouts in my life, and also succumb to less-than-stellar food choices from time to time. BUT…am I going to beat myself up about it?
Nope.
A LIE AND TWO TRUTHS
A lie. All or nothing. It occurred to me a while back that perfection is an illusion. Truly, who do you know who executes perfectly on everything? No one does. It’s part of being human.
Truth #1: Perfection isn’t required to make progress. Consistency is. If perfection was required, what would ever get accomplished? Nothing.
Truth #2: There’s no neutral in life. We’re either progressing or we’re not. BUT regardless of the pace, there has to be a tipping point of progress vs. no progress.
THE TIPPING POINT
Can you make progress being on track 51% of the time? Well, assuming you picked the right things to focus on, yes you can. Will a pace like that take a long time? Yes, a painfully long time.
Let’s look at this differently though. What was a passing grade in high school? 70%. If you were wrong 30% of the time, they still would pass you on to the next grade. I think there’s some wisdom to that.
Yet, for some reason, we tend to treat a lot of goals (especially health goals) as if we have to execute perfectly (100%) or we might as well not even try. That can’t be a mindset that does us any good.
A BETTER WAY TO LOOK AT GOAL ACHIEVEMENT
So, if perfection is an illusion, and 70% is passing/progress, why not arrange our goals in such a way that we know what 100% looks like, and let 70% execution be our minimum standard. If we can’t hit 70% we have to reevaluate our priorities.
Would that approach create a little more grace in your life? I think so. Would 70% keep you making progress? Assuming you picked the right habits to focus on, absolutely it would! Is it as fast as the illusionary 100%? No, but you’ll still get there.
“BUT I WANT TO (INSERT GOAL) AS FAST AS POSSIBLE.”
If you really want to swing for the fence, try raising your standard to being 80% consistent. If you really get focused (and make some big sacrifices) maybe we can stay on track 90% of the time? But to me, 90+% consistency is Olympian type standards.
For your own sanity, know that a passing grade will get you to your goals. Remember, consistency is your superpower.
Give yourself a little grace if the year isn’t going quite the way you wanted it to. You’re not perfect. You never will be. Just focus on getting a passing grade. Do that…and arriving at your goals is inevitable.
WANT SOME HELP?
Take some time to get clarity your goals and most important behaviors, create an action plan, and use your Best Planner Ever to stay on track. There’s a daily meal and exercise tracker built right into your daily planning so you can start to incorporate health and well being like any other “task” you need to accomplish. Create a habit of getting this into your daily schedule – and use your planner to do that.
Reach out to an expert and get some help. Hiring a personal trainer, or visiting a nutritionist are all ways to make health a priority in your life. Plus, the extra boost of accountability will help you reach a “passing grade” much more quickly than on your own.
Reaching goals is all about having a plan, not a wish. Real goals take time and depth of thought to accomplish. Use whatever tools works best for you to help structure your thinking and reverse engineer your goals within the larger context of your life.
Whatever method you use, remember to focus on being consistent at the things that matter.
You got this,
Christian